The Total Sound Of The Undergound

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Friendship Commanders return with BEAR, a bold new album blending heaviness, emotion, and exploration of belonging. Buick Audra and Jerry Roe discuss inspiration, dual singles, and the themes shaping their most ambitious work yet.

1. You’ve just released the dual single “X / MIDHEAVEN.” These two tracks show very different sides of BEAR. How do they reflect the range of the new album?

BA: This album has some brutal, metal-leaning work on one end of the sonic/tonal spectrum, and then some more lush, grunge/shoegaze material. I think “X” is fairly representative of the latter, while “MIDHEAVEN” lives in the former. The whole record explores this idea of belonging and the songs are quite unified when put together, but we definitely cast a wider stylistic net for these ten tracks than we have on any past body of work.

JR: We're both huge fans of metal and rock that runs the whole gamut, but I think these two really show you the adventurous, technical side of us as well as the emotional, song-based and almost more soundscapey tendencies we can indulge in. Musically they're on opposite ends of the heavy music spectrum to me even though they still belong together on our record. Everything about “X” is to serve the song, whereas we really allowed ourselves to “show off” with “MIDHEAVEN.”

2. Buick, you mentioned that “X” was written in the wake of Steve Albini’s passing. Can you tell us more about his influence on your music and what it meant to honor him in this track?

BA: Yeah, I wrote “X” within six weeks of Steve’s passing, and it is sort of about him but also about Gen X and the way I was watching them grieve him while I was also mourning that loss. Steve was a friend and a collaborator; we made our second album BILL with him. But before any of that, he was one of my favorite musicians. Shellac was influential to me on a cellular level. To this day, I don’t think I’ve heard anyone else present music in such a primal, zero bullshit way. And the lyrics were also so real. No airs. That mattered to me, and still does, and I think I’ll always keep it with me. Anyway, when he died, I saw an entire generation become unmoored, but many of them seemed to almost take his death personally. I found it both fascinating and familiar, so I wrote a song about the generation who raised me. Putting his name in the second verse and saying that all of our faith died along with him felt (and still feels) necessary and true. I like having a reason to say his name, and now I have one. Every show. He deserves that at the very least. Steve ripped.

3. Jerry, you directed the video for “X.” What was it like capturing that Gen X/Grunge-era mood while still keeping it authentically Friendship Commanders?

JR: It was a lot of fun, and also a LITTLE scary because I wanted to reference the era and the vibe without it seeming on the nose or even directly evoking any specific artist or video. I also wanted it to be clear that we were coming from a positive, grateful and understanding place, so I wanted it to be clear in the way we were posturing ourselves and with the framing and behavior in the video. It had to look like somewhere you wanted to be, and I definitely want to be where we ended up.

4. The concept of BEAR centers around belonging—where it exists and where it doesn’t. How did that theme emerge during the writing process, and how personal is it to each of you?

BA: The first song I wrote for the project was “KEEPING SCORE,” which also opens the record. And that song is about this bizarre tendency some women have to feel threatened by young girls—and to attack them for it. It happened to me as a kid, and I see grown women doing it now. So, I knew I was starting to write about patterns. As the songs stacked up, I realized I was telling the story of being kicked out of womanhood (like, from the jump), but also about these other pockets of belonging I’ve had along the way. Counterculture, growing up with the elders of Gen X leading the way, music scenes etc. It’s very personal to me, but I think creating this body of work has helped me see it for what it is: rejection as liberation. If they don’t want you, you’re free to be what you actually are.

JR: The words and themes on this record are all Buick's, of course, but I can relate to them in my own way in that I grew up a non-Christian in the bible belt as a member of a musical family, so I started out as an outsider. I also work within the music business and the music that gets made within has a lot of limitations and boundaries placed upon it, and I often feel like my peers think I'm kind of crazy for being in my own band rather than just trying to tack myself onto something that's already huge. I never really end up feeling like I belong anywhere. Truly. I can relate to the words in every one of Buick's songs on this record in my own way, absolutely.

5. “MIDHEAVEN” explores the idea of destiny and whether who we are is written in the stars. Do you both see yourselves as skeptics, believers, or something in between when it comes to fate?

BA: I’d say I’m more skeptical of the believers who turn the belief of others into a grift. I’m deeply curious about what makes us who and what we are in this life—so the song was written in earnest. But I give serious side-eye to those who claim to know all of the answers and want to lead people, charge them money, and exploit their willingness to explore what’s out there.

JR: I'm a major skeptic at this point. I have some basic sense of spirituality in that I feel connected to all the living beings on this earth and wish well for all of them, but I definitely don't believe in the idea of fate or being able to change anything beyond your own physical actions in this world.

6. Your music often walks a line between crushing heaviness and melodic clarity. How do you balance those extremes in your songwriting without losing either edge?

BA: Thank you! That’s a great thing to hear. The answer is that we love and believe in both of those pieces. I’m obsessed with songcraft; huge fan of pop and R&B, of music you’ll remember for the rest of your life. I’m grateful to be able to hear melodies that stand on their own. The heaviness is just the truth of who we each are. We both grew up loving heavy music (different stuff, but with some crossover), and we’re both kind of dark customers. So, the marriage of the two elements is natural. I do think that my tendency to be so riff-driven in my songwriting takes us out of pop and lands us firmly in heavy music, but I will always love a big chorus that makes you want to sing along in the car and drive too fast.

7. You co-produced BEAR with Kurt Ballou, who also tracked and mixed the record. What does Kurt bring to your sound that makes him such an essential collaborator?

BA: Kurt’s so important to what we do at this point, it’s actually hard to imagine making an album without him. As an engineer, his tones and mixes are invaluable. And as the third producer, he’s the tiebreaker, the voice of, “What if we tried this,” and he’s also a great hang. Making records is a lot of long days, emotional and physical heavy lifting, and being in a small-ish space with other people. Being a solid hang is worth a lot. I think he lightens the vibe quite a bit. He never changes what we do, but he helps to make it the best it can be. Love him.

JR: Kurt's perspective on our tones and ideas when we're tracking are an essential ingredient that I honestly don't ever want to live without. He mixes and records drums the way I like best, honestly captures Buick's guitar sound and makes it sound as big as it is in the room in real life, and makes her voice sound huge. He's also changing it up every time we record with him and trying new things and seems perpetually unsatisfied with what he's done before, and that's what I always want. He's also great to hang out with and we can talk for hours. Everyone should work with him!

8. Friendship Commanders have often been described as needing to be “much bigger than they are” by outlets like Metal Injection. How do you feel about that kind of praise, and does it affect how you move forward?

BA: It’s such a huge vote of confidence! It’s so important to know that anyone else sees and believes in what you’re doing. Being in the arts can be lonely at times. Super grateful for press, venues, other musicians that are stoked on what we’re doing and say so. That said, the work can never pander. I don’t believe in it. There’s that Albini influence. The work must always come from an honest place, never from wanting to be liked. But yeah, the support feels incredible. Grateful for it.

9. The track list of BEAR looks both heavy and deeply emotional, with titles like “DEAD & DISCARDED GIRLS.” Can you share a little about the emotional weight behind this record compared to your past releases?

BA: So, this record is personal but also quite cultural in its themes. As I talked about, “KEEPING SCORE” is about women harming girls, and “DEAD & DISCARDED GIRLS” is, in part, about the murder of a fourteen-year-old girl named Reena Virk. She was killed by her peers, one of whom was another girl. I want us to look at the way girls and women are treating each other and get brutally honest when we examine abstract concepts like patriarchy and empathy. I’m just one woman who didn’t make the cut with other women, but the reasons around that are more troubling than my story on its own. The world is in ROUGH shape right now, and we tend to look at the same sets of issues related to why that is; I’m asking us to look at other pieces. Other people. And I’m asking us to take responsibility. If the only empathy you have is for people exactly like you, and the ones who live in your household, check it out. The emotional weight tilts toward the collective and asks: and where are you in this? Our releases before this one have been heavy in other ways. But this one gets somewhat specific in its messaging.

10. With BEAR dropping on Magnetic Eye Records this October, what do you hope listeners will take away from the album—and what’s next for Friendship Commanders after its release?

BA: I hope they think it rips! And I hope fellow weirdos feel seen. My work is always for the outsiders, for the people aren’t popular on purpose. And what’s next is that we’re going to tour on the album for as long as we can. We’re going to Europe for the first time next year and can’t wait! Get ready, pals; we’re coming for you!

JR: I find a lot of joy and catharsis in our music, and I love to play as aggressively and as loudly as we can. I just hope everyone can get taken away by that in the way that we intended, and I hope the world is ready to come see us on tour!

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